Sunday, May 13, 2012

In Pros and Cons - PAGEANTS 101 they state, "While the discussion on child beauty pageants pros and cons are getting hotter day by day, one can imagine the intensity of destruction, this could do to a child's self esteem. What does a child need? Independence of eating and standing on her own and confidence that her parents love her. Aren't we oblivious to those needs? Child beauty pageants facts are sometimes more horrifying than the most horror movies. The mothers pressurize their children to work on their appearance to look like a barbie doll. The cost of entering a child beauty pageant is quite expensive. The cost includes entry fees, training program, accommodation and hair and make-up services by a professional. The irony of the situation is that, parents prefer to spend money on designer dresses than on the child's education. The whole education system is a failure in the US as the interest of the child is diverted to some irrelevant beauty pageants. This is total betrayal of the trust the child has in her parents to provide a secure future. There is a lot of pressure on children to perform on the stage. If the child happens to lose, frustrations creep in. The frustration leads to depression and other psychological complication. Child beauty pageants effects are disastrous on the child's body and mind. A child's innocence is marred by fake plastic smiles, false eyelashes and polished appearance. Children grow up to think that the only way to earn money is through exploitation of their bodies, which is not true. Children develop eating disorders such as bulimia and anorexia to make their bodies look perfect."  


By entering children into these beauty pageants, one is only setting them up for depression and eating disorders in the future. Of course there are winners and woman who grow up to be symbols of peace, but only one out of thousands end up leading that lifestyle. Parents pressure their child at a young age to engage in competitions that normally lead to negative outcomes. It is ironic, in fact, that parents who enter their children into beauty pageants pay ridiculous amounts of money for beauty rather than education. These pageants do more harm, than good and really impact these children's lives in the long run.

Reflection Questions:

Why do parents pay so much money for beauty?
How did parents get so caught up in the pageant frenzy?

Citation:

Mads, M. (n.d.). Pageants 101. Retrieved from http://pageants101.weebly.com/pros-and-cons.html

1 comment:

  1. Beauty pageants (parent-wise) are ways for mothers to live out their lost dreams and live through the life of their 8 year old. To them, money is no object, as this is literally their goal in life. Someone that wants to live through a child seems like the kind of person that very much is obsessed with physical appearance, and if money can achieve it, they're all for it.

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